Uhh thank you so much for saying this! I go through slut stages.. and then decide I “should be alone and learn about my own sexuality alone”… because “that’s the only way to really know yourself.” And while solo sex can be great, it IS different than partnered sex and playing with one doesn’t necessarily help you figure out the other. I don’t turn myself on the way a partner can turn me on for one. Reading this was so validating!