This is great! I’ve always gaged how much time I spend with partners talking about their or my other partners… it can be nice and helpful sometimes, but ultimately it’s so important to have relationships founded on more than just therapy from other relationships.

I don’t think I’ve ever had two partners who were close enough to talk about me to each other, but I’m close to one of my partner’s partner. We talk about him once in a while but also have a friendship of our own — it’s lovely!

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.