This is an interesting aspect of poly. I’ve been poly for a while but only have had two times when I was deeply in love with two people. I didn’t want to date more than those two because no one would feel as good as them.

I do find it much easier to compartmentalize an old love and a new love, and can appreciate them both, but it’s harder with multiple new loves.

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.