Love this! After periods of not having sex for a while, thinking about it, it’s just abstractly funny. Crashing our bodies into each other over and over- what?! It’s so much better if we can embrace all the silliness and awkwardness and grossness (vagina farts! God I remember how embarrassed I was when that happened the first time.) Maybe that’s the sign of a good partner, someone you can laugh about it all with.

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.