Love the metaphor in the title! And very relatable piece. I think the draw to the not-so-good relationships for me is the need to work through stuff. I try not to avoid those relationships but just ask myself why is this here? What do I need to learn? But it may be a lifelong process…

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.

Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.