Indeed, polyamory can become as rigid as monogamy if the the perimeters aren’t constantly revisited. There’s a great Esther Perel podcast episode about that, (whereshouldwebegin.estherperel.com/episodes/s4-episode1) and it was such an aha moment for me when she pointed out the rigidity polyamory can take too. I can certainly get caught up in trying to control things through labeling and boxing. But ultimately I think polyamory, when it’s it’s going well, is all about embracing change. Great think piece!