I can relate to all of this with my own experience in non monogamy. It is not easy!! I’ve found that some things just aren’t ready to be written about. Some things need some time to breathe and settle into a bigger context. I tend to write about everything in my journal but often wait to write for publication until I have a better idea of what’s going on. But there are also times I’ve published something that felt very very raw, and that’s always hard! Nope, enm is not always pretty. I think it’s important to acknowledge that too. Thanks for sharing 💕