Polyamorous and sex-positive essayist, poet, and over-thinker.

After a year in a mostly sexless relationship, I have some thoughts on the matter

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Is need an appropriate word to describe the relationship humans have with sex?

Or is want more accurate?

Or what about desire?

You may not physically die without sex, but what do you sacrifice when you don’t have it? What do you miss out in your life? In your relationship?

I spent a long time in the backseat of my father’s car, but I’m learning to be in the driver’s seat of my own

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This morning, I wake up to a text from my father, linking yet another article about a new mental health treatment promising to cure depression, which my father seems to be certain is what I suffer from.

I don’t read it. I don’t even skim it. From the title, I…

Anne Shark

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